Listen now | At 18 years old, Josh Harris believed that intimacy is the byproduct of committed relationships and that it's not appropriate to engage in intimate relationships until or unless you are ready to make a life-long commitment. Like so many Evangelical Christians, Josh believed that sex and intimacy are the same thing. Millions of couples have bought this same lie that just by waiting and making a vow of commitment, they would experience deep intimacy in marriage. In Episode One, I discussed how dating is actually relationship practice and you can't become good at anything without practice. You can't just wait until you get married to start learning how to appropriately engage in relationships.